Many men think they are sex goddesses, knowledgeable in sexology and bedmatics.
In reality however, they are sexual illiterates, blindly walking the corridors of sex but tolerated just to preserve their ego.
Well, there are 6 mistakes that almost every man makes and women wish they would not.
Here they are:
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Men expect only intercourse to give her an orgasm. Sometimes, an hour of intercourse may not be enough to give her an orgasm and it has been reported that 80% of women don’t climax for intercourse. The reason is that not all sex positions directly stimulate the clitoris. So you might need to add other things like oral sex or allow her to be on top or include sex toys. It is also key to get her going with foreplay before penetration.
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Men think sex begins in the bedroom. It is easy for men to suddenly be ready for sex, but women take longer to get stimulated and ready. So as a man, try to build the arousal before the sex itself happens – do stuff like hugging, kissing, and holding hands and generally having fun together to indicate that you appreciate her beyond just sex. If you do this, the woman will feel free and safe and really give her entire self during sex.
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Men think women don’t need to be seduced. Wrong, women like to be wooed, always. Talk to her, tease her, speak dirty, nasty (is she likes it), compliment her and generally make her feel wanted. Tell her how much you miss her and show it with touches, sexual touches, SMSs, calls etc.
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Men think sex is the same every time. Simply because men can get erect and stick it in, they assume that the approach that worked the last time will work again. But women operate on mood and what gets her going before may fail. For example, if she likes to get oral to get going, it may fail, needing you to focus on her breasts instead for a change. Her nipples may at that moment be the spot she needs touched, not her vagina. So always try something new and watch her body language. If she responds well, then do it and id she doesn’t, try something else.
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Men think women know what they want and are satisfied in bed. It is a common thing for men to think women are happy with the sexual experience simply because they make no complaints. Sometimes they even have to fake an orgasm even though they are not enjoying it. The way out it to always try something new, asking if she liked it or not before continuing.
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Men think that only the clitoris should be stimulated. It is an assumption held by many men that the glans, at the top of the vulva, is the only sensitive place in the vagina. So they pay too much attention to it. But the trust is that the nerve endings of the clitoris spread throughout the vulva and inside the vagina, meaning there are several places inside and around the vagina open to pleasuring.
So guys or men 🙂 , take correction and avoid these mistakes.
If you do, you’ll leave your woman happier and more satisfied in bed.
You’ll like that, right?
